The surprising fact is that pain and power can play a part in attaining pleasure. It may sound kinky, but couples get wild and apply rough erotic performances in their bedroom. The act has one partner casting in a dominant role and the other playing a submissive character. This is popular as BDSM (Bondage, dominance, submissive and masochism). Sexuality is unique and complicated as well as our wants and needs change regularly. Therefore, discovering and experimenting with new ways is considered to be vital.

Power exchange – The foundation of BDSM practice is power exchange, where the couples trust one another adequately to surrender/control for mutual pleasure. However, it is successful, when certain rules are maintained and a careful structure of the safe word is involved. If it is done right then it can deepen your physical and emotional bond with a lover and also you can have lots of fun. Take turns and be imaginative, safe and careful.

Safeword – First decide a safe word that can be used to stop the scene because, in the heat of that moment, you can hardly speak or hear. No verbal communication is necessary only moaning for appreciation is adequate. If anything is beyond your expectations then just use the safe word. Remember to honor the safe word. Anything can happen for example you can get a cramp in your foot or suddenly feel uneasy.

Role of good Dom – Always bear in mind that Rome was not constructed in a day, which means your relationship with submissive partner needs patience. You have to create an ideal scene for that successful sexual play. You can get basic help and learn the techniques rather than hurting your partner. You have to get an insight into submissive psychology. Honest communication will lead to recognizing the submissive and have you walk the way of dominating them more effectively. Be responsive to your partner's needs and desires and even keep track of your requirements and wants to draw a line of balance. If you like thrashing and she does not then you can start slowly by doing some spanking in a sensual manner.

In this way, you can fulfill a part of your desires and also take her wants into account. Fortunately, she will also think about playing with you again, if you care for her or she will shy away from going kinky. Monitor the scene and read the submissive partners posture, odor, and taste. Recognize the time to end the scene, before she has had enough. Be firm and self-confident. Know what you desire and never make an apology for wanting it. Make certain that rules are made and followed. If she disobeys, you can punish her sensually by using ice cubes, blindfolding her and kissing her erogenous areas and make her beg for that last ride.

Role of a Good Sub – If you are playing sub then completely behave in a submissive manner. Be obedient every time your lover interacts with you. As a sub enjoy the feeling of helplessness, who is at the mercy of the dominant. You are not equal to the dominant, so always kneel down to please her.

Being well-versed about what is to be expected is essential before participating in a dominant/submissive rapport.