Fantasies are manifestations of wish that can or cannot be fulfilled. It helps you to recognize that you have an active imagination. Additionally, they spice your sex life. They are your dreams and thinking about them stimulates, tempts and maneuvers you sexually. It can be advantageous to rekindle your girlfriend by sharing these dreams.

The significant point to remember is how to express these thoughts. Take care in sharing it because fantasies are your personal vision. She may not be familiar with your interest or understand your interest. Therefore, while communicating your fetishes caution is vital.

Sow the seed

In a relationship, there are different stimulating scenes or positions, but there is a fear whether your girl will share that similar sexual interest or think that it is odd. Therefore, while watching a movie together, you can discuss the scenes to express your interest. Simply start by saying, ‘that looks interesting, what do you think?' This sexual thought may stimulate her and her imaginations will run wild.

Remember not to pressurize her or she will reject. In addition, don't bring this topic up every few minutes to find out, if she has decided to participate with you. You may look desperate, which is certainly not attractive.

Trigger the thought

Now, make certain that she is comfortable before your next move. You can take her to your bedroom because she will feel relaxed here. You can tell her that you had a dream if you are shy. Talk about the sexy dream you had, she is sure to get interested.

Next, let her be inquisitive and get the fine points out of you. Now, delicately let her know that it wouldn't be terrible if it was performed in reality. You can introduce the subject in any way, but bear in mind to keep it graceful and fun.

Finer details

As you get an idea that she is interested in your sexual fantasy, start presenting the finer details. Her mind will get aroused with all the dirty things you desire her to do in the dream scenario. Don't forget that fantasy and reality are different. It has to be experienced mutually, so focus on those parts that are the most fun.

Avoid talking constantly about your pleasure that will appear the fantasy to be one-sided or selfish. The next step is the reality show, where your girl will be in the main actress role. It is your dream and you desire her to join you in the sexual fetishes.

Give and take

Males are not the only one that has fantasies. Give and take offers success to relationships. So, when she joins you in fulfilling your dream then it is your turn to return this favor. Additionally, you never know if her daydream may be binding and teasing you. Luckily, it has turned out to be your dream too.

The bottom line is that reveal your fantasies and thoughts to sign in with your girl. Understand her thoughts, desires, needs, and perspective. If you discover that your spouse is not open to hear or engage in your fantasy then understand the reality and accept her decision.