The reflection of a male and female undulating together with amplified speed and ultimately ending in twin groans and gasps is a perfect simultaneous climax depicted in romantic books and movies. However, this is highly rare in real life.

The majority of women are not familiar with how to orgasm together. According to sexologists, ‘Simultaneous orgasms need women to hasten and men to control. Several females generally require another type of motivation like clitoral stimulation besides penetrative intercourse to climax.'

There is no need to vex if you cannot perform like those onscreen scenes. You can attempt to achieve it with practice. Coming together simultaneously can offer a different sort of mutual bliss. After all, libido is all about to give and take pleasure. Experiencing this synchronized passionate moment is both thrilling and delightful.

Timing is important

Generally, females take a long time (around 20 minutes) to get aroused than males, to create the scene with your hands and mouth tantalizing her. Prolonged foreplay needs to be mastered by each male. After she gets ready to penetrate her. However, you need to concentrate on your body signals and art to control your ejaculation.

During sex, before you reach the peak, stop and relax. This will help you to delay your own climax and lead you to come together. On the other hand, you may desire to climax before coming together because several males find that they can control their ejaculation much better the second time.

Ideal positions

Women who climax via clitoral stimulus need to pick a sexual position to permit the clitoris to get stirred during intercourse. On the other hand, certain women get aroused via indirect stimulation that is when your pubic bone grinds her vulva.

Woman on top – Your woman on top facing you facilitates easy access to her clitoris that can be stimulated dexterously with your hand. You can lead the entire time and work it effectively.

CAT technique – The CAT or coital alignment technique is an appetizing deviation of the customary missionary position. CAT permits rhythmic stimulation of the clitoris, which is vital for mutual orgasms. Your lady lies on her back comfortably and you position yourself on top of her.

Both her and your pelvis need to be aligned that is your penis base should be in connection with her clitoris. Then allow her to wrap her legs around you and mutually rock against one another. Allow a continuous and stable rhythm rather than pacing up as you approach orgasm.

Added stimulation

Your hands or tongue may get tired trying to arouse her but a vibrator can make your manual work simple. Holding a bullet vibrator or clitoral vibrator during penetrative sex is a sure way to get the mind-blowing experience of simultaneous orgasm. The added stimulation has helped to activate your orgasm at the preferred time.

With practice, you can perfectly climax together. Don't get disheartened, if the timing does not trigger simultaneously. Stay relaxed and enjoy the moment, focus on the existing scene and make an effort to peak together.