You have been thinking of getting a girl in your life, as soon as possible. These lonely nights and your computer being your only companion aren't really cool. You wish to change the scenario and to be one among those guys who have appealing girls with them. You want your weekends and nights too to be exciting and fun. Yet, in spite of all the plans you make, all the tips and techniques you go through, the foremost problem that you face is, while approaching a girl.

Every-time you are in a pub, shopping mall, or any other such spot crowded with those sexy girls, you feel like befriending at least one of them. No doubt, you also get good responses from them for the little efforts that you make. Yet, in the end, things suddenly change, and they go away with someone else. You are left all alone, to return back to your place, and have another lonely night. Hence, to get through this very first door of making a successful approach to a girl, you need to know a few aspects.

Why Do You Foresee The Worst?

It's not only you, in fact, most of the guys usually foresee the worst possible scenario while approaching any girl for the very first time. They foresee how the girls would turn to their own way, and how they will be left behind. Besides, at times, men also foresee themselves being responded rudely by those girls and being insulted in the public.

Now, the problem is here itself. You, expecting the worst scenario, make yourself appear nervous, timid and shy. Whether, you already know it or not, but such an approach and less confident attitude is the biggest turn off for any woman. No wonder, you always get what you have always been foreseeing. Hence, try building confidence, and try detaching yourself from any such outcome. It will make the difference, the next time.

Try Having Fun with Your Goal At The Back Of Your Mind

Ok, so this time you somehow managed not to foresee the worst possibility. Great! It seems things would go fine. However, now when you have started having a conversation with her, you need to be concerned about a few things. Firstly, you needn't appear too weak or too strong trying to impress and attract her.

Just let it be an easy, confident, and fun interaction with her. You need to keep yourself cool, calm, and collected. Let it be more of having the fun of the moment, having a good time with her, and trying to make her smile with your sense of humor. Try sending some flirting body signals in the course.

Being Prepared For A ‘No' And Significantly For A ‘Yes'

If it's finally a ‘no' from her, you needn't get depressed and desperate. It's not the end of the world, right? You needn't give up. Try your best to get her, and still if she doesn't, remember there is always the next girl.

Besides, if it's a ‘yes' for her side, then you need to hold your horses, and not act too excited or desperate for her attention.