It's really painful, and you regret breaking up with her. Although, it was a thoughtful decision that you both agreed to, yet even after so many months you want her back. Most of the times, after a break-up both the ex-partners need to deal with such a state of grief and regret. They wish to change everything. However, it might be a temporary thing that people usually feel after a break-up. Soon, with the passage of time, things change, and you move on.

It's good, in-fact really great, when people can move on after a break-up, and they start leading their life ahead normally. After-all life goes on, and you too need to pace up with it. However, the problem occurs when you want her back and can't forget her even after a considerable amount of time. You realize that it's actually quite tough to lead your life without her, and so you want her back desperately. Hence, here are a few ideas that would be of great help in this context.

Understand That Even She Is Feeling The Same

No doubt, you know her well, about the way she thinks and would react to this situation. Yet, things are a bit different after a break-up. Hence, you feel like you are alone suffering the pain. As far as she is concerned, you think she is leading her life normally, and it doesn't matter to her much. There you are mistaken, and so such bitterness might interfere with your zeal to get her back.

Try and understand that girls usually are equally (if not more) into emotional trauma as you men are after a break-up. They too regret everything, wish things would have a bit different, and they too want their men back. Hence, she is feeling the same, as you are right now. Get her back, make yourself and her happy, and start living a jovial life all over again.

Get Rid Of Wrong People around You

True friends, or just ‘friends', or even the ones who were least bothered about you earlier, start consoling and advising you soon after a break-up. No matter whether you want those or not, but everyone would give their ‘precious suggestions' and words of ‘comfort' to you.

Most significantly, people would also advise you to just forget her, and give up your attempts to get her back. Irrespective of whether they are doing this for refraining you form the pain, or because they don't want to see you both together again, you need to stay away from such people.

Stay Committed To Getting Her Back

It's not only the people around that you need to be aware of. At times, you need to even fight yourself for not giving up your aim.

Yes, there are varying emotions after a break-up. You have those soft feelings and love for her, but all of a sudden feelings change and you start hating her the next minute. It's ok, to have such varying emotions for her, but then you need to calm yourself at such times and stay focused to get her back.