Asking a girl out for the first time seems awkward. Either she will say ‘Yes'-which will make you happy, but a ‘No' is sure to hurt you or make you feel embarrassed. It makes you nervous, falter and the anxiety of getting rejected may stop you. There may be plenty of misunderstandings and anxieties that are keeping you away from inviting her out. Success is in the way you deliver an invitation. There are no special formulas to ask a girl out, but some changes in approach can make your plan successful.

Is she interested?

Communication skill attracts women towards you. The key lies in keeping her interested in a conversation that can offer you an opportunity of asking her out. The sexual attraction is also vital. Her body language also tells a lot. For example, she touches you often or she asks personal questions or she teases back, these are some of the signs that indicate she is interested to have a date with you. Be observant to pick up the obvious signs of interest.

Here are some tips to get a ‘yes' from her

Be straightforward – Don't beat around the bush because it can be a big turn off. If you desire to take her out then make it known frankly. The time you waste in gathering the courage to ask her the chances of getting turned down increases exponentially. Hence, let it be short, sweet, and concise. Instead, don't ask but invite. Why take the risk of getting rejected? Just invite her for a coffee or dinner. Don't give her space to refuse. If she is busy at that particular time then immediately give her an option to select the day.

Look in her eyes, smile and ask – Right way? Now, if you are nervous then you may gaze at your feet or nervously from one side to another with a look of fear, insecurity, and hesitation. Women appreciate a confident male, who looks straight in her eyes with a smile and say, ‘Hey, Let's go out this Saturday?'

Don't pass take initiative – At the end don't just hand over your number or card and say, ‘call me'. Actually, if she is a self-confident girl then she will call you and if she is the shy type then you don't get the date. Instead, take control, ask her number or e-mail. Calling women personally would be the most appropriate way.

Practice your cool tone – If you really want a ‘yes' then the pressure or desperation may be noted in your tone. So, practice and keep cool. Whatever the outcome, keep your wits around. If it is ‘yes' then it is great. Your expression must suggest that you anticipated that outcome from the start. Grin and say, ‘I'll see you around'. Even if the answer is ‘No', stay composed, calm, and collected. No need to get dramatic.

Be cool and calm, when she agrees. Prime yourself and be normal. Don't get excited or nervous and start to talk about the date or start appreciating her positive reply. On the other hand, you will talk in exactly the same manner as before. Act naturally or she will get a little cautious about her decision. Stick with the tips and you will start dating confidently with every girl.