Not many men are satisfied with the size of their penis. The fear of not being able to satisfy their partner is one of the most common concerns among men. In the majority of cases, this concern does not have any physical foundation but in some cases, men have a small penis syndrome. These individuals suffer from severe psychological distress. The feelings of shame, anxiety, and embarrassment are not to be dismissed and need to be medically treated. The experts strongly advise that men who are experiencing a small penis syndrome begin with psychotherapy.

Where to start?

The most important and the most difficult thing at the same time are excepting the fact of having a small penis. Embracing the situation and beginning to accept themselves just as they are, is the first step on the road towards healing. Following the true story beautifully describes how important the moment of realization can be to begin the healing of small penis syndrome. The story took place in a gym and describes the moment of self-acceptance. We will call our story-teller Bob.

A Life-changing moment happened one day after Bob´s workout when he had just taken the shower. There was nobody else there, so he started showering. Only a few moments later another man came in. He was not tall, quite the opposite, he was only about five-feet-six-inches tall and thin. The thing that impressed Bob about this newcomer was the size of his penis. Bob was that guy who would always quickly take his shower and immediately wrap a towel around him afterward.

Until that day he would always turn away and never stare or even look at another man´s penis. However, that day something happened inside him. Bob simply was not able to look away. He remembers how he was looking at his penis and then down to his penis. At that moment Bob realized how small his penis was, but there was nothing wrong with that. It was like a lightbulb turned on within Bob´s head, and he had accepted himself for what he was.

This story may not seem important for others, but for Bob, the moment of realization and self-acceptance helped him to make a crucial step ahead to begin the healing process. The feeling of relief is a very powerful feeling and can make the journey towards a normal life a lot easier. Therefore, self-acceptance would be the first and most important step in overcoming the small penis syndrome. A man needs to learn to like himself no matter how his body parts look like realizing it is just a physical difference.

Further self-tips for men with small penis syndrome

After accepting the fact about having a small penis, life will probably change its direction. The mind will start to operate differently. Instead of feeling helpless and complaining about the situation, individuals with a small penis will begin to explore the possibilities of solving the problem. Effective solutions can only be found after the problem has been defined. Another step to be achieved in the healing process is gaining sexual confidence in the bedroom.

Many men with large or average-sized penises suffer from low sexual confidence, usually guided by fear from bad bedroom performance. Women often do not have problems with smaller penises but are seriously annoyed with low sexual confidence. Which brings us to another important thing, understanding sexual capabilities, and communication with the partner? Men with small penises can satisfy their partners, as long as they understand their limitations and learn to know partner´s needs. By identifying the partner´s needs, sexual intercourse can be performed in a way to pleasure both partners.

Even though having a small penis can represent a big challenge, it is not an unsolvable situation. As long as a person stays on a positive side, accepts the situation, and finds solutions to the problem, a small penis syndrome can be successfully managed.