Often, guys try their best to interest women towards them. They project the ‘good-guy' attitude, and try to be humble, understanding, dedicated, and most importantly genuine with their feelings. However, in the end, they fail, and more shockingly women choose the jerks and the bad boys and start dating them.

While losing your own chance to be with her was already sad, the feelings got even worse when she preferred a jerk over you. Is he actually the kind of guy that she has always wished to be with? Why can't these women see the good traits in guys like you, and why do they always go with ‘bad' boys? Well, the answer is quite simple. They find in them what they are attracted to, and obviously, you lack in those sectors.

Confidence – Being Sure Of Yourself

The most significant reason why women are fascinated by those jerks is that they are confident and sure of themselves. They are cocky in-fact. You need to reveal the same as you are confident that you can have her if you actually want to.

It's ok being a little arrogant since it displays that you are certain of yourself. Tease her, have fun with her, try being even arrogant at times, and let her fall for you finally. It's true that she is attractive, and you want her, but you too have your own persona and class. Let her know that she won't do any ‘favor' on you, by being with you.

The ‘Mysterious' You

It has always been one of the most efficient keys to confuse a girl, to make her curious about you, follow you, and then fall for you. If you have ever noticed those ‘play-boys' who never have a scarcity of women in their lives, you might have found that they have a ‘mysterious' attitude.

Yes, you may ask her first for a date, in-fact being a guy you would need to take most of the initiatives. However, let her not be completely sure that you like her. You needn't be an ‘open-book', where she knows everything about you and things going inside your mind. Let her not take you for granted, ever. Let the ‘mysterious' you, confuse her, and find interest in you.

That Right Attitude

Ok, before anything is said in this context, there are a few things that you need to believe whole-heartedly. Those women, they love sex, you, and if they aren't with you it's their loss. For yourself, you are not going to lose anything, and even if she doesn't agree, you have plenty of choices, right? There are many more women, with whom you can try your efforts.

You needn't reveal that you are desperate to be with her. Yes, you like her, but you yourself are a challenge to be met. When you have this kind of attitude and persona, no matter whether you actually have a great physique or not, and a pretty face or not, women will fall for you.