Besides attending classes and studying for grades, college years are simply great for parties and enjoying wild nights with girls. In fact, they are the best years of everyone's life, so use them wisely. The first step will be to go out, make friends, and expand your social circle. If you are busy, then plan your weekends properly so that you can meet more people.

Make it happen

No one will notice you or know you, if you walk around, just listening to the music on your I-pod. Playing video games on your college campus might not be a good idea either. There are many teens like you, new to the college and town as well.

Socializing wouldn't impact your education, in fact, it will strengthen your confidence and will make you more popular. You can easily overcome your shy nature and develop your unique style to interact with people, who are just like you.

Socialize – Expand your circle

Meet your dorm colleagues. Take the first step and introduce yourself. Maybe you might be lucky to meet his girlfriend's female friends. Even sports activities are a great way to connect with many new people. Simply be social and pleasant. You can become a member of the college football or baseball team and get to know more people.

College campus will have many girls, so choose the best one with whom you might be comfortable with. Instead of going around and trying to pick every girl, whom you see its necessary that you are around with someone who is comfortable with you. If she is in your class, then you get more chance to talk to her. Talk to everyone and gradually increase your friend's circle.

You can also spend time at the clubs or parties and get introduced to new girls every now and then. There is a possibility that some friend's cousin may be the girl for you. With a decent social circle, there is a chance to attend plenty of cool parties and get to meet girls. With the right group, you can easily attract girls.

Never get disheartened

Even if you do not meet someone, don't feel downcast. Remember to move around as you will eventually meet the right girl, who will be interested in you. Begin with friendship because it opens the door to know one another. College dating is about having excitement, fun and getting to learn new things. Socialize until a girl invites you for a date. Till then just be cool, approachable, and a fun guy without any agenda.

Golden rules to remember

• Be positive, responsive, and never feel anxious to approach an unknown person to say hello
• If anyone talks to you are kind and friendly, instead of being shy
• Moving fast can make things awkward
• Never look desperate by asking her number in the first few weeks of introduction.
• Focus on making plenty of good friends instead of zeroing on a single girl