Even confident men, commit silly mistakes while talking to women, they are passionate about. They become extremely cautious and start repeating the same thing again and again, so as to kill the boredom.

Keep it real

You need to understand the fact that you're not a hero, who can handle everything quite good. If you think that you can easily allure women, by talking anything then you are wrong. You try too hard to impress a woman, and it doesn't work at all.

It's good that you let go of that girl, as she might not be interested in you at all. It makes no sense in begging, pleading, or roaming around her so that she can notice you.

Keep up that confidence

Men display amazing social skills, whenever they are with their friends. They joke flirt, make fun of each other and enjoy each other's company. In short, they are never short of words or topics, and every moment with friends is interesting. Things change drastically when they talk to a girl, perhaps a potential date.

They have to try hard to think about a topic and ensure that they talk something sensible. Men tend to hold back their feelings and use limited words, as they don't want to hurt their potential date. All these things make the date quite boring and disinteresting. Guys don't restrict yourself, as it will show that you are less confident.

Sound interesting, not official

Men do not want to spoil to be always close to the women they like. This is the reason, why they end up the conversation too soon. Sometimes they prefer to pick a serious and non-interesting topic, just to reveal their knowledge.

They fear of cracking jokes and don't want to tease or flirt with them. Such feelings are quite natural, so try to relax and remain composed. Don't plunge on to questions like ‘what is your age', ‘what profession are you in', ‘what college did you attend' ‘who all are there in your family', etc make the conversation sound like a job interview.

The key to having a good conversation with a girl is to keep it simple and humorous. Guys don't try to be too much reserved, as women don't like it.

Other than that, here are some major Dos and DONTs which need to be taken care of.

• Look at her when you talk to her. Eye contact is a must
• Do not try to be what you are not. Be yourself.
• Do not be too personal or too distant. Maintain a balance
• If you have a sense of humor, show it off
• Try your best to avoid the ‘awkward silence' phase
• Don't speak too much or too little, let the conversation be two-sided.

Remember having a good conversation is no rocket science. Women would love to see your funny and entertaining side. No lady would like to date an emotionless, dull man who is incapable of making her laugh. Make sure she has a good time with you. Do not be afraid of sounding silly, it is way too better than sounding uninteresting.