A man with a small penis always suffers from low self-esteem. All his life, a man with a small penis is reminded that his penis is small and does not measure up. One of the most difficult things that a man with a small penis will ever do is to come to terms with this particular fact.
Does small penis really make you inadequate?
Having a small penis does not mean that you are inadequate in your sexual performance or towards the other aspects of your life. It might be possible that you have always been reminded about your small penis by your past and present partners, or even your wife. Looking at the penis of other males in the locker room, public toilet, pornography, and public shows might have made you feel inadequate and reminded you of your small penis.
Another frustrating point is not being able to find condom of the right size, as to fit your penis. In addition, there is all the focus on penis size. However, give yourself some time and think once, if you have ever faced any sexual challenges, which you were not able to fulfill. If you have, only then can you blame yourself and that small penis for making sex inadequate.
Reasons for the development of inadequacy and inferiority among men with a small penis
Having a small penis is just not easy. However, most men with medium size penis also experience this inadequacy when they are comparing themselves with men, who has a large penis. However, they do not experience it on the level that a man with a small penis does. There are men, who might have even taunted and bullied a man just because he has a small penis.
It is really shameful, how men think this is funny when all they are doing is breaking the confidence of a man because he has a small penis. It’s an act of shame and immaturity, time to grow up!
Men with the small penis have difficulty in finding a partner, who will love him the way he is. Most women claim that the size of a penis does not matter to them, however, this seems untrue, seeing the number of men, who are dumped just because they have a small penis.
It is no wonder that men with small penis develop inferiority complex about themselves and their ability. Men with a small penis are not able to talk things out with their friends or their partners. They usually pent up their feelings within themselves trying to fight with the emotions within themselves and at the same time fighting with the world.
It is now time to understand the feelings of these men. Having a small penis does not mean that they are inadequate or inferior in their ability. All they need is love and support and they can be the most wonderful lovers you will ever find.
The different category of men with a small penis
Men with small penis fall in three different categories. To know more about the different categories, read on.
Men who are comfortable with themselves: There are men with a small penis, who will not let anything affect them and rule their life. They are proud of who they are and no one’s opinion matters to them.
These men know the size of their penis, but they will not allow anything to affect themselves. The only time that they might be sensitive about the size of their penis is when they have to change in a public place. They might prefer using cubicles when using a public restroom. Other than these, they will not think twice about what the world feels about their penis size, these men believe in themselves and their ability, rather than believing the deteriorating remarks of people.
Men who are always frustrated with themselves: There are men, for whom size matters, and due to this, they are always anxious, frustrated and angry. They are always bitter in the world, and with themselves. They can never come in terms with the reality that they naturally have a small penis, and they will not be able to do anything about it. There are men with a small penis, who are virgins even after they have reached their fifties. The main reason for this is that they are too worried about their size and forget that they too can live life normally like other individuals.
Men who slowly and steadily accept themselves: There are men, who are able to accept the way they are and are able to carry on with their life. However, it is not as easy as it sounds. The only way in which men with a small penis are able to overcome and accept themselves is when they face some kind of humiliation about the size of their penis.
This is the worst nightmare of any man, who has a small size penis. However, once he faces this humiliation, he is able to overcome all fears, which were holding him back for so long. Hence, they come to the realization that it was their fear, which was holding him back for so long and not the size of the penis.
Once the realization comes, men with a small penis are able to fall in love with their penis, and even adore them. This is the time they see the small penis as an asset rather than a handicap.
What men feel after they overcome their fear
We have come across men, who feel that the size of the penis makes them inadequate, and they are ashamed of themselves. Recently, we came across a guy, who stated that he was embarrassed about the size of his penis. Whenever he had to change his clothes or take a show in public, he made sure that his lower part was always covered.
However, one day while having a shower at a gym, this guy saw another guy with a longer and thicker penis. This was the first time, he was able to accept that he had a small penis and there was nothing wrong with it. Just like the physical features of each individual is different, so is the shape and size of the penis.
That was the first time he did not look away seeing a long penis. He accepted the fact that his organ was small, but that is no big deal. He went on to tell us that the day he was able to accept himself, he fell in love with his penis. He did not live in the dark, mulling over the fact that he has a small penis. This was a life-changing event for him and he never looked back. He is now happy the way he is. So, accepting oneself is really important.
It is the size of the penis, which makes a woman break up with you.
Almost all guys with a small penis feel that it is the size of the penis, which drove a woman away from him. This may be possible in some cases. However, do you really think it is possible that all women think in the same manner? Well, this is not possible. When we talked to women asking them if they broke up with their ex because of the penis size or were there some other reason. Read on to know what the women answered.
Most women we talked said that it was not the size of the penis, which made them break off with their ex, but it was lack of confidence during sex, which drove them away. They feel really frustrated when a man is not able to satisfy them. All men with a small penis should remember that they have to be confident while performing. Shaky confidence will not take them anywhere.
There are women, who claim that they get aroused by men, who know what they are doing in bed. You have to remember that you will have to seem confident and not arrogant while in bed with a woman. Hence, the first thing that you need to remember in order to have amazing sex and relationship is that it’s not the size of the penis that matters.
Women desire a man, whom they will feel connected with, who is fun to be with, confident, energetic, a good provider, a wonderful husband, and father. Do you think she can ignore such a person just because he has a small penis? Definitely not! She will not let go of the person, who has all these qualities and more.
It is men, who are not able to identify with what women really want and because they are insecure about their own penis size, they end up losing what could have been a wonderful relationship. Guess some of you do not believe what you are reading, right!
If you have a woman, who has all the attributes that you are looking for, a good wife and mother, fun, confident, energetic, however, she has small breasts, will you leave her for having small breast? Of course not! So what makes you think that a woman will leave you just because you have a small penis.
Now, is the time to embrace and accept the fact that your partner loves you, irrespective of the fact that you have a small penis. She loves you for the person you are and not for the size of your penis.
The right way to approach a woman during sex
It is really important that you understand what your lady wants when you are in bed with her. Gone are the times when women were too shy to state what they like and enjoy in bed. Hence, it is important to communicate with your partner, telling her what you enjoy and ask her preferences while in bed together.
It is important to set the limit in bed and doesn’t do what your girl is not comfortable with, this goes without saying that this applies to men with large as well as a small penis. If you are someone with a large penis, does this mean that you will shove it down your partner or insert it roughly, assuming that she will like it? No! This is reckless and insensitive behavior. You will need to think if your act is going to hurt your partner or not. Do not do anything that will hurt or offend her. You will have to take great care, as how to approach sex with your partner, irrespective of the fact that you have a large or small penis.
Men with a small penis should experiment with different poses and positions, which will make sex more enjoyable for their partners. However, it is important that you stay open to feedback, both positive and negative. In the case of negative feedback, do not sulk and get offended, this is the right time for you to improve your sex life with your partner. One of the best action before sex is to give massage with aroma oil to one another. This act turns on both the partners, enabling them to enjoy sex.
You can also try reading different erotic books together, learning and trying the new and exciting sexual position. With a willing partner, who will do as depicted by the book, you can find the position, which can be enjoyed by both of you.
Using sex toys to enhance your sexual life
Using sex toys is an amazing idea, as this will help in enhancing sex life, making it enjoyable for both the partners. However, it is important that you do not get intimated or conscious of the size of the dildo, which is larger than yours. What should really be important is that your partner is enjoying this particular sexual act, and you should enjoy with her. This way both of you can enjoy sex without feeling uncomfortable.
There are men, who say that seeing their partner enjoying with the dildo arouses them too. When a man ensures that his woman enjoys during sex, she returns the favor by making sure that she does something that makes sex enjoyable for her man too. At times, your girl might perform kinky sex too, just to make sure that you are as satisfied as she is.
Foreplay is an important part of sex. It is really important that you take time to play with each other’s body, touching, caressing and licking each other. You should try oral sex, and slowly and steadily become an expert. Women love getting their breast sucked and their vagina sucked and licked, as it turns them on. If you can make her experience orgasm while giving her an oral, she will love you for that.
Ask your girl to suck your penis. You will be surprised how many women enjoy sucking penis, which is small. A small penis is comfortable for them to suck and they are not gagged by it or get hurt by it, hence, making oral sex enjoyable for you as well as your girl.
While enjoying oral sex, you can make things exciting for one another. You can use liquid chocolate or ice – cream on each other’s body and slowly lick it off. You will be amazed at how it would arouse both of you, making sex exciting and wonderful. Oral sex is a wonderful option for men with a small penis, as they will be able to gain orgasm and satisfaction during oral sex.
While we are talking about oral sex, let us discuss penetration too. It is important that when you are penetrating inside, your position should be such that, she is able to enjoy full penetration. However, you have to accept that penetration is not the only way to achieve orgasm for men as well as women. One of the best poses that would give your woman immense satisfaction is sitting on all fours. This way, your small penis will be penetrated completely inside, and it also allows you to have a full view of her body. You can touch her and press her breast while having sex with her.
Make sure to satisfy your partner
Most men are so obsessed about getting the orgasm themselves, that they forget that they need to take care of their partner and satisfy them too. Hence, you hear loads of women state that they have to fake an orgasm when they are having sex with their partner. Most men are good at having sex, and making their women experience orgasm, but most men get too engrossed with themselves, and hence forget their partner. It is important to pay equal attention to your partner and find ways to satisfy her, like kissing, biting or caressing, whatever is preferred by your girl.
This is the right time to master your moves and find ways to satisfy your girl by paying attention to her. This is the right time to prove that you are a better lover than all the other men she had in her life, proving that the size of the penis has nothing to do with sexual satisfaction and even men with a small penis can completely satisfy their girl.
Beyond Size: Embracing Confidence And Fulfillment For Men With Micro Penises
Introduction
Body image is a significant issue for both men and women. Society often sets unrealistic standards for what is considered attractive, leading to insecurities and self-esteem issues. For men, the pressure to conform to a certain body type can be even more challenging, as the emphasis on masculinity and virility is heavily tied to physical appearance. One aspect of male body image that is rarely discussed is the size of one’s penis. While society often equates a larger penis with masculinity and sexual prowess, there are many men who have micro penises, defined as a penis less than 3 inches when erect. This paper will explore the impact of society’s obsession with penis size on men with micro penises and how they can embrace confidence and fulfillment beyond the societal expectations.
The Pressure for Bigger is Better
From a young age, boys are bombarded with messages about the importance of size, particularly when it comes to their genitalia. Many popular media outlets perpetuate the idea that a man’s worth is tied to the size of his penis. This can lead to feelings of inadequacy and insecurity for men who do not meet society’s expectations. The emphasis on penis size is so pervasive that it has even led to the rise of the ‘penis enlargement’ industry, with products and procedures promising to increase the size of one’s penis.
The Impact on Men with Micro Penises
For men with micro penises, the societal pressure to have a larger penis can be overwhelming. They may feel like they are not ‘real men’ or that they will never be able to please a partner sexually. This can lead to feelings of shame, embarrassment, and even depression. Many men with micro penises may avoid sexual intimacy altogether, fearing judgment or rejection.
Beyond Size: Embracing Confidence and Fulfillment
It is essential to recognize that penis size does not determine a man’s worth or masculinity. Men with micro penises can still lead fulfilling and satisfying lives, both sexually and otherwise. The key is to shift the focus from external validation to internal confidence and self-acceptance.
1. Educate Yourself
First and foremost, it is crucial for men with micro penises to educate themselves on the reality of penis size. The average erect penis size is 5.16 inches, meaning that a micro penis is not as uncommon as society may lead one to believe. Understanding the facts and dispelling the myths around penis size can help alleviate some of the pressure and insecurities.
2. Communication with Partners
Communication is key in any sexual relationship, but it is especially crucial for men with micro penises. It is essential to have open and honest conversations with partners about one’s insecurities and concerns. This will not only help to build trust and intimacy but also ensure that both partners are on the same page.
3. Focus on Pleasure, Not Size
Sexual pleasure is not solely determined by the size of one’s penis. There are many ways to please a partner, including oral sex, manual stimulation, and using sex toys. Men with micro penises can experiment with different techniques and find what works best for them and their partner.
4. Practice Self-Acceptance
Self-acceptance is crucial for embracing confidence and fulfillment as a man with a micro penis. It is essential to let go of societal expectations and focus on one’s own self-worth and happiness. This may involve challenging negative thoughts and beliefs and replacing them with self-affirming ones.
5. Seek Support
It can be challenging to cope with the societal pressure and insecurities that come with having a micro penis. Seeking support from a therapist or joining a support group can be helpful in processing these emotions and developing coping strategies. Talking to other men with micro penises can also provide a sense of community and validation.
Conclusion
In conclusion, the societal expectation of a large penis can have a detrimental impact on men with micro penises. However, it is essential to recognize that penis size does not determine one’s worth or ability to have a fulfilling life. By educating oneself, communicating with partners, focusing on pleasure, practicing self-acceptance, and seeking support, men with micro penises can embrace confidence and fulfillment beyond societal expectations. It is time to shift the focus from size to self-love and acceptance.
