Believe it or not, people break up over small things such as the penis or breast size. As surprising as it may sound, some people have strict preferences regarding penis size. Here’s what we know about penis-size discussions that can break a relationship.
Did You Know Penis Size Discussions Can Breakup Relationships
Women are known to be overly sensitive to their bodies. Thus they suffer from body image issues, which could cause a lot of problems in relationships,
For men, the greatest image issue revolves around penis size. This may sound a little unbelievable, but yes, couples do discuss the size of the penis and it does break relationships.
A man suffering from Small Penis Syndrome, is especially vulnerable. What is this condition? This is a compulsive obsession with how your body structure looks and feels. It controls your mind to constantly be acutely aware of small or minor defects.
Men suffering from this psychosis reaction will continuously bring up this issue with his partner. His woman will always try to comfort him by telling he has an appropriate penis size.
However, he is well aware of the truth that he has a small penis. The discussion gets serious because he knows she is lying to him.
Does this situation looks familiar to you? If yes, then you are not alone. This situation has been clinically studied. According to a report published in journal Psychology of Men and
Masculinity, around 45% of men are dissatisfied with the size of their penis.
These men would thus bring this topic up. Thus most couples face this sort of situation in their lives and the discussion can potentially take them far.
The issue with man is not that the woman is lying, but what irritates him is her size preference is something so important that she has to hide it from him. This type of man is likely to hide his penis from his spouses.
Still, he will have emotional guilt, making him feel inadequate in front of his female partner, He may also view himself as unattractive,
Thus despite the woman’s best effort to reassure him that size, in fact doesn’t matter in the relationship, the continuous emotional instability may overwhelm him. As such, the disintegration of his self-confidence could lead to him ending a relationship.
Below are some examples that throw light on the issue:
A man reported that it is difficult to understand what his girlfriend actually wants. What she says is confusing. For the first time, she comments that it is not at all about the size, but about what happens before the penetration.
This explains that foreplay is more important. However, when she is asked again, she replied it’s the girth size that matters.
Again, on the following day, while having sex, she is insisting to penetrate deeper. Well, now the question is what her exact preference is. Is it the foreplay, the girth size or the penis length?
Another man reported that he feels that her girlfriend is lying to him. Although they haven’t directly discussed his penis size yet, she somehow manages to make him feel that his penis size is just fine.
However, it is hard to believe since, at times, she even asks whether he is in or not. Although this question is more about robust stimulation and not the size, it has a big psychological impact on the man’s ability to perform.
One more case sighting the same issue, a man reports that he was dating a wonderful girl a couple of months back. Everything was smooth and fine. One day, she writes to him that she cannot wait to have sex with him again and that she misses his “big penis”.
Now, that was a problem maker. Well, she has already admitted in front of him that she had seen bigger penises than his. Also, he is well aware of the fact that he has what is called an average penis size.
So, every time she compliments him of having a big penis, he felt the complete opposite of it. They broke up because he did not want to take more lies.
So, this clearly states that what women think, say and want are three different things, especially when we are talking about penis size preferences.
The above-mentioned examples conclude that the discussion over the penis size is definitely a trouble maker and in most cases, it is a no-win situation.
Since the man already knows where he stands on the penis size scale whatever his girlfriend says does not really matter, as he knows the reality well.
The three examples provide perfect situations where small penis syndrome could affect otherwise lovely relationships. The men are clearly obsessed with their penis to focus on their intimacy.
Instead of taking complement from their spouses as an encouragement, they take the issues as personal attacks on their penis size, and prefer ending the relationship to improving their self-confidence.
Penis Size: How Much Does It Really Count?
Penis size has been a topic of fascination and discussion for centuries. From ancient Greek statues to modern-day pornography, the size of a man’s penis has been seen as a symbol of masculinity and sexual prowess. However, in recent years, there has been a shift in the conversation around penis size and its importance in sexual satisfaction. While some still believe that size matters, there is growing evidence that it may not be the determining factor in sexual pleasure. This paper will explore the history of the obsession with penis size, the scientific research on the topic, and the implications of this conversation on society’s understanding of masculinity and sexuality.
The obsession with penis size can be traced back to ancient times. In ancient Greece, large penises were seen as a sign of strength and virility. Statues of male gods and heroes were often depicted with large, erect phalluses. Similarly, in ancient Rome, a large penis was seen as a symbol of power and authority. This obsession with size can also be seen in the Kama Sutra, an ancient Indian text on sexuality, which includes techniques for increasing penis size.
In more recent history, the belief that size matters has been perpetuated by popular culture and media. In the 20th century, the emergence of pornography reinforced the idea that a larger penis equates to better sexual performance and pleasure. This belief has also been perpetuated by Hollywood films, where the male lead is often portrayed as having a large penis and is seen as more desirable because of it. This constant reinforcement of the idea that size is the key to sexual satisfaction has led to many men feeling inadequate and insecure about their own penis size.
However, scientific research on the topic tells a different story. A study published in the British Journal of Urology International found that the average flaccid penis length is 3.61 inches, and the average erect penis length is 5.16 inches. This is significantly smaller than what is often depicted in media and pornography. Furthermore, a study published in the journal Sexual Medicine Reviews found that only a small percentage of women reported that penis size was an important factor in their sexual satisfaction. The study also found that women were more likely to prioritize factors such as emotional connection and sexual technique over penis size.
This research challenges the long-held belief that size is the most important factor in sexual pleasure. It suggests that other factors, such as communication, intimacy, and sexual skill, play a more significant role in a fulfilling sexual experience. Additionally, research has also shown that the size of a man’s penis does not necessarily correlate with his level of masculinity or sexual confidence. In fact, studies have found that men with smaller penises may have just as much sexual confidence and satisfaction as those with larger ones.
The obsession with penis size not only has implications for men’s self-esteem and sexual confidence but also for societal perceptions of masculinity and sexuality. The constant emphasis on size reinforces the harmful notion that a man’s worth is tied to the size of his penis. This can lead to a culture of toxic masculinity, where men feel pressure to conform to unrealistic and harmful standards of masculinity. It can also perpetuate harmful stereotypes about sexual pleasure and contribute to the objectification of both men and women.
In conclusion, while the obsession with penis size has a long history, recent scientific research challenges its importance in sexual satisfaction. The belief that size matters is perpetuated by popular culture and media, but in reality, other factors play a more significant role in sexual pleasure. This conversation not only affects men’s self-esteem but also has implications for societal perceptions of masculinity and sexuality. It is essential to challenge these harmful beliefs and promote a more inclusive and healthy understanding of masculinity and sexuality.
